Book a house of gold, a beautiful woman in the book. Reading has always been the common people of a stepping stone to become nobility, especially those born poor meteoric rise suddenly more eager scholar opportunities, it is a qualitative leap, enough to live comfortably under the premise of the whole family just a few kilometers to become the eternal beauty of heaven sweet talk, be everywhere the voice of praise, the city is full of admiration for the light, wonder of life will bang nomination as one of the three great rejoicing also reasonable. But Ye Hao, few kilometers from heaven worth mentioning, while pregnant with the light behind the darkness when the main character is not everyone's lucky, under the premise of supply and demand imbalance, happy the situation has become ambitious, confused and hesitant to become irresistible of chronic disease. Afford to take, let go, is the weight lifting, get affordable, fit, is the weight. As rural origin who, after 80 as the city in the reinforced concrete falter, do not believe the tears in this age, they face the embarrassment of their own future, to hesitate.
Zou Zou earlier contact with a lot of rational people age 80, some of which come from the countryside after 80 caught my attention. Simple, simple is the unanimous view, but it seems everyone's faces are hung heavy with loss, especially in moments of pleasure are very ecstasy of passion, but in the quiet moments are quiet scary however, did not mean it cool, and is that their uncertainty about the future.
1, Beijing is suitable for yourself?
Zou Zou rational side almost all the friends come to Beijing to feel the moment of extreme just arrived in Beijing are not suited. Go to work often takes three to four hours looking at a crowded bus and subway let fear of life. But it seems a long time, we all got used to. In fact, this is not accustomed to the rhythm of the city, but numb. Many people say that do sunset, sunset but not for the good life, then our future who will pay for it? Some time ago, there was a scholar, said the highest housing prices in Beijing have to seventy per square meter, 200 years of struggle to pay off the mortgage, not to mention just two or three thousand of these a month for 80 months from now? Assuming bought 1-2 million per square meter in remote small house?
2, bought a house, our children how to do?
If you got some savings, plus a little of their hard accumulate a little money, you can barely buy a down payment, then 80, after a lot of rural origin hypothesis in favor of this view, the next consideration makes you feel really too naive. At least two or three thousand per month to repay hundred percent of the birds will let you as panic, fear of unemployment, fear of illness, followed one child, the child's milk money every month just makes you tough as a mountain like the back , slightly larger account of the child how to solve the problem? If no kids, good condition until middle age, the children also got it? Moreover, most of the 80 study years, a lot of money to spend at home, and now continue to hand money to the family, and all of a hung his head.
3, a beautiful youth not willing to dedicate the house?
buy a house, the mortgage and raising children, a series of trouble followed, after 80 of rural origin have their own ideals, to face the reality of embarrassment, but had to bow But the heart and some unwilling, after all, have their home ready-made house, let endured sufferings of carrying a mortgage life, my heart always feel worthwhile.
4, home wives?
If you simply go home wives in order to save costs is a good idea, but after marriage it? Start with a long of 80 followed by living in big cities live in small places there are 80 hundred percent communication gap, after all, caused by the environment dictates. But then after marriage, the wife to Beijing to or stay at home? To take over the work of finding the place? If you stay in the home, husband and wife love more? If you have children, or at home is to take over education, there is no account to Beijing, but also rely on at home, elderly parents, who consider children's future?
5, back home who work to solve the problem?
Well, since the road above does not work, then let the work had to go home. But for so many years living outside their own mind whether the home environment with the integration of it? Lot of people say, if there are opportunities at home, long into the institutions or agencies, and why is still floating out? Many people agree with this view, since to stay out definitely go back to fame, but also on family relationships mixed day live in a small place, is clearly contrary to his own mind. Even if you can go back, are there for their own jobs do, not to mention what the first professional counterparts or not, I am afraid something like financial services, consulting companies are not. A huge gap, you can stand it?
6, how to solve the gap to go home?
concession terms, even if the breadwinner can go back and find a job. Divide the world into the ground, who will comfort? Not to say that the nature of the points, but in the big city atmosphere of intense work in the loose mixed day suddenly turned into live, plus full day of work by Latin American relations, full of initiative to the original certainly much frustration after 80, so that the days that we have been pursuing it?
7, we struggle to Go?
this knot in every human heart, the more leisure time in the more intense torture. When the cruel face of reality and the ideal of a beautiful collision, do not choose is a choice, because after 80 rural origin has been no turning back. Family endured sufferings for the school, as is one day pass the examination, glorious lintel, and now have to worry about their own future, is clearly contrary to the original intention, they also do not face home. Zou Zou 80 to see a rational feeling like: I am in Qingdao, a month 2K, graduating four years, the rural home. Parents have let me go back, but they do not understand, I have not go back. Did not even go back to graduate school can not match the. Then I years, the significance of school where I told my mom, I'm out alive anyway whatever the outcome, people do not know. One said it also felt very cow, but really want to go back. Not even a way to avoid places. Siyaomianzi living death ah. In fact, I am a person without ambition. The biggest wish is that the evening after work, to be back home to eat mouthfuls of hot meals. Family watch TV together, to talk to. This has become a luxury. In short, or their fit ah, conflicts ... ... ... ... She was about thirty struggle was. May attend the wedding of the students to see the couple bow to their parents when. Crying, I think, If my mother saw me get married. This is how happy ah! She waited for this day so nearly 30 years.
8, marriage is the end or not end?
relatively cities do not get married after 80 is because he did not much loved one, and rural out of the 80 can not afford to get married. Zou Zou rational ability to speak here, not only financially, but also mental endurance. Many people come home every year to be at home most of the things that is asked when the wedding, these 80 never said that statement can not afford their own outside marriage, and always said he did not fit the loved one, to his return to single people to the ranks. Because he knew that after marriage a chain reaction is that he is brought can not be accepted.
9, What is targeting?
positioning is very important, so you know where they are, will go to where you can clearly know whether monk or a monster, but they are from the rural areas out of 80, neither the urban share of free and easy and no share of simple rural people. One day you do not marry and have children in the city to buy a house, you will always be a stranger. But you're back home, we are accustomed to using a strange point of view you think you already are in the city people.
10, can not give up anything.
the saying goes, there is devotion. 80 from rural origin reason why so much trouble more because anything less than giving up before the face of today's embarrassment. In fact, after 80 months of age in itself is an awkward age of 80 after the call from the moment of birth, it was popular both as a after 70 to develop healthy, does not fear the future after the 90 free and easy, and perhaps this is a growing pains, but when is the end of it?
; ; adapted from Zou Zou rational forthcoming book.
Zou Zou earlier contact with a lot of rational people age 80, some of which come from the countryside after 80 caught my attention. Simple, simple is the unanimous view, but it seems everyone's faces are hung heavy with loss, especially in moments of pleasure are very ecstasy of passion, but in the quiet moments are quiet scary however, did not mean it cool, and is that their uncertainty about the future.
1, Beijing is suitable for yourself?
Zou Zou rational side almost all the friends come to Beijing to feel the moment of extreme just arrived in Beijing are not suited. Go to work often takes three to four hours looking at a crowded bus and subway let fear of life. But it seems a long time, we all got used to. In fact, this is not accustomed to the rhythm of the city, but numb. Many people say that do sunset, sunset but not for the good life, then our future who will pay for it? Some time ago, there was a scholar, said the highest housing prices in Beijing have to seventy per square meter, 200 years of struggle to pay off the mortgage, not to mention just two or three thousand of these a month for 80 months from now? Assuming bought 1-2 million per square meter in remote small house?
2, bought a house, our children how to do?
If you got some savings, plus a little of their hard accumulate a little money, you can barely buy a down payment, then 80, after a lot of rural origin hypothesis in favor of this view, the next consideration makes you feel really too naive. At least two or three thousand per month to repay hundred percent of the birds will let you as panic, fear of unemployment, fear of illness, followed one child, the child's milk money every month just makes you tough as a mountain like the back , slightly larger account of the child how to solve the problem? If no kids, good condition until middle age, the children also got it? Moreover, most of the 80 study years, a lot of money to spend at home, and now continue to hand money to the family, and all of a hung his head.
3, a beautiful youth not willing to dedicate the house?
buy a house, the mortgage and raising children, a series of trouble followed, after 80 of rural origin have their own ideals, to face the reality of embarrassment, but had to bow But the heart and some unwilling, after all, have their home ready-made house, let endured sufferings of carrying a mortgage life, my heart always feel worthwhile.
4, home wives?
If you simply go home wives in order to save costs is a good idea, but after marriage it? Start with a long of 80 followed by living in big cities live in small places there are 80 hundred percent communication gap, after all, caused by the environment dictates. But then after marriage, the wife to Beijing to or stay at home? To take over the work of finding the place? If you stay in the home, husband and wife love more? If you have children, or at home is to take over education, there is no account to Beijing, but also rely on at home, elderly parents, who consider children's future?
5, back home who work to solve the problem?
Well, since the road above does not work, then let the work had to go home. But for so many years living outside their own mind whether the home environment with the integration of it? Lot of people say, if there are opportunities at home, long into the institutions or agencies, and why is still floating out? Many people agree with this view, since to stay out definitely go back to fame, but also on family relationships mixed day live in a small place, is clearly contrary to his own mind. Even if you can go back, are there for their own jobs do, not to mention what the first professional counterparts or not, I am afraid something like financial services, consulting companies are not. A huge gap, you can stand it?
6, how to solve the gap to go home?
concession terms, even if the breadwinner can go back and find a job. Divide the world into the ground, who will comfort? Not to say that the nature of the points, but in the big city atmosphere of intense work in the loose mixed day suddenly turned into live, plus full day of work by Latin American relations, full of initiative to the original certainly much frustration after 80, so that the days that we have been pursuing it?
7, we struggle to Go?
this knot in every human heart, the more leisure time in the more intense torture. When the cruel face of reality and the ideal of a beautiful collision, do not choose is a choice, because after 80 rural origin has been no turning back. Family endured sufferings for the school, as is one day pass the examination, glorious lintel, and now have to worry about their own future, is clearly contrary to the original intention, they also do not face home. Zou Zou 80 to see a rational feeling like: I am in Qingdao, a month 2K, graduating four years, the rural home. Parents have let me go back, but they do not understand, I have not go back. Did not even go back to graduate school can not match the. Then I years, the significance of school where I told my mom, I'm out alive anyway whatever the outcome, people do not know. One said it also felt very cow, but really want to go back. Not even a way to avoid places. Siyaomianzi living death ah. In fact, I am a person without ambition. The biggest wish is that the evening after work, to be back home to eat mouthfuls of hot meals. Family watch TV together, to talk to. This has become a luxury. In short, or their fit ah, conflicts ... ... ... ... She was about thirty struggle was. May attend the wedding of the students to see the couple bow to their parents when. Crying, I think, If my mother saw me get married. This is how happy ah! She waited for this day so nearly 30 years.
8, marriage is the end or not end?
relatively cities do not get married after 80 is because he did not much loved one, and rural out of the 80 can not afford to get married. Zou Zou rational ability to speak here, not only financially, but also mental endurance. Many people come home every year to be at home most of the things that is asked when the wedding, these 80 never said that statement can not afford their own outside marriage, and always said he did not fit the loved one, to his return to single people to the ranks. Because he knew that after marriage a chain reaction is that he is brought can not be accepted.
9, What is targeting?
positioning is very important, so you know where they are, will go to where you can clearly know whether monk or a monster, but they are from the rural areas out of 80, neither the urban share of free and easy and no share of simple rural people. One day you do not marry and have children in the city to buy a house, you will always be a stranger. But you're back home, we are accustomed to using a strange point of view you think you already are in the city people.
10, can not give up anything.
the saying goes, there is devotion. 80 from rural origin reason why so much trouble more because anything less than giving up before the face of today's embarrassment. In fact, after 80 months of age in itself is an awkward age of 80 after the call from the moment of birth, it was popular both as a after 70 to develop healthy, does not fear the future after the 90 free and easy, and perhaps this is a growing pains, but when is the end of it?
; ; adapted from Zou Zou rational forthcoming book.
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